Gilbert, 31, reportedly wrote the letter to remind Vance that the two attended the same Upper East Side school before Gilbert went on to the equally elite Deerfield Academy and Princeton University.

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Adrienne Bak, one of two girls raped by 'Preppy rapist' Alex Kelly in Darien, Connecticut, in 1986, wrote to the girl who said she was raped by Owen Labrie at St Paul's School in Concord last year.

By the way, if you saved your "Official Preppy Handbook" in the attic, good for you: It's out of print. Copies in good condition, originally $3.95, are going for about $60 and up on Amazon and eBay.