Dear Heloise: I am a "secret pal" to a lady in a nursing home. I asked for the name of someone who doesn't have any family near or no one who bothers to write or visit. The nursing homes are glad t… ...

Back in 1980 my love life started at San Diego State University. My wife Melissa (my girlfriend then) were secret pals at the dorms. She was giving me presents and I was giving presents to someone ...