Men do you see this in your relationship? We hear this often from men. Wives, remember that for most men bedroom intimacy is a "NEED". Yeah they won't die without it but their connection to you might. Most bids for connection in marriage are not live or die needs but they can be Marital Needs. We can choose to diminish this desire and call it "not a need or necessary" but what does that accomplish? How would you feel if that was done to you? When our spouse is making a bid for connection, why no